I've come to the conclusion that...

I can't wait for the day that I'm not working part-time as a waitress.  The money may be good sometimes...but it is SO miserable. 

But on a lighter note, here are some tips on how to silently communicate with your server: 

1.) When your drink is empty and you need a refill-please don't wave it rudely in the air.  It's obnoxious and it's irritating.  Instead, set it at the end of the table that way it is more noticeable when she is walking by.  

2.) When you are finished with and entree or appetizer and would like some extra space on the table, stack the dishes so your server can pre-bus your table.  Not only do you get some extra room but it's also really helpful for you server. 

3) Same goes for your check.  When your waitress drops the check make your method of payment-credit or debit, cash, gift cards, etc.- visible and set it on the edge of the table so they see it when they walk by.

Three easy steps.  If in scenario #1 the waitress does not notice the empty beverage it is OK to POLITELY remind her.  You are not her only table, give her some time and she will replenish your drink.  

***Another reminder*** Don't sit for hours talking at the table, especially if you have already paid-it's enough to make your server go bonkers.